How to know if someone loves you secretly
many people hide their feelings and live with their secrets for many years, and they may remain and disappear with the days to wake up suddenly when meeting the old lover suddenly on a road or in a meeting, this coincidence may revive buried feelings, but it may return buried Once again, to bury love and feelings of desire for reasons that we will discuss later in the article, but what happens to this person is suppression of himself and himself, but what about the other party, (the beloved), that beautiful girl or that handsome young man, do they not feel those they love, isn’t there What thoughts circulate in their imaginations, talking about them, guiding them to them when there is no kind of telepathy between them? And most importantly, they do not want to know who loves them and who hates them, I think that everyone wants to know that, and everyone yearns to approach this information, even if to satisfy his desires and vanity, but what is the way to achieve this end, and how to reach the one who secretly loves you, we will try in This article reviews some points that may guide them to this information.
Why do people hide their feelings?
There are many reasons why do people hides their love, including:
- His fear of the other party's feelings towards him, so he fears that the other party will not exchange the same feeling for him, and a feeling of disappointment, heartbreak, and brokenness prevails in him.
- Preserving his dignity, so he thinks that if the other party does not reciprocate with him the same feeling, this is a great insult to his dignity.
- The complete uncertainty of feelings of love, one of us tries to wait to see if those feelings towards the other party are feelings of love or feelings of temporary admiration that will go away or disappear with time.
- Try to find out a lot about the other party, so he slows down to gather more facts about the other party. We note here that females are more eager to hide their feelings; Because their feelings are very sensitive, they are afraid of them, and they may be hurt by the slightest and simplest actions.
How do you know that someone loves you?
There are many ways by which you can find out, including the following:
- Observe the way he treats him, as love obliges a person to treat his lover with respect and attention, and therefore he listens to his girlfriend well when she speaks, respects her thoughts and opinions, and does not make fun of her, even if he does not agree with her, in addition to his attention to the small details that belong to his lover, and to respond to her requests in the best way possible.
- The man has the desire to bear part of the responsibility, so he does not throw the entire burden on his girlfriend, rather he shares with her the duties imposed on her, and takes the initiative to do that on his own before she asks him.
- He's willing to make some concessions and sacrifices in exchange for pleasing his beloved, even if it is in simple matters.
- Observing the way he communicates with his girlfriend, if the communication is permanent, whether, through phone calls or text messages, this is evidence of his love for her and his constant thinking about her.
- His desire to spend a lot of time with his lover, and his enjoyment of his constant presence by her side, as he can change some of his habits and lifestyle to spend more time with the one he loves, without complaining or regretting.
- Simple and small gestures that he makes from time to time, such as buying things that his girlfriend prefers even if she does not ask him to do so, or withdrawing the seat for her to sit on, or working to take care of her during her illness, these things are simple, they are great evidence of his love And his feelings were true.
- His attempt to get to know his beloved's family and friends and get close to them, and present a positive character about himself in front of them, as well as presenting it to his family; Because he considers it a part of his life and his future.
- He tells his girlfriend the most accurate details of his life, and his secrets, even though men are conservative and secretive by their nature, but a loving man is open with his girlfriend and does not hide anything from her, because of his love for her, and his great confidence in her.
- he occurrence of problems and disagreements between lovers is a natural thing that cannot be avoided, and therefore a loving person does not evade facing such situations, if he feels upset or upset about some matters, he resorts to dialogue and frank discussion with those he loves, and make a real effort to fix the situation, and reach solutions that satisfy both parties.
Other signs of someone loves you
Some many signs and signs appear on a man, through which a girl can be sure of his love for her, even if he does not explicitly say so. Among these signs are the following:
- Listening carefully to what the girl is saying, and his desire to know how she spent her day, and to learn about the details of her personal life.
- Visual contact between a man and his lover, through his constant staring at her, and his loving looks that reveal the extent of his passion and love for her. Sharing with his girlfriend doing the things she loves and her favorite hobbies, even if in return he does not want to, he enjoys being with her and wants to see her happy permanently.
- Buying gifts, and presenting them to her on occasion or without occasion, regardless of the value of the material gift. His constant attempt to bring happiness and joy to her heart, and he did everything in his power to put a smile on her face when he felt her sadness or resentment about something.
- His sense of longing for her, and missing her when she is absent from him, as he expresses this in several ways, either by direct speech or by his actions that show the extent of his longing and eagerness to see her.
- Giving his girlfriend her own space, so he does not surround her, or make her feel guilty just because she wants to spend some time away from him, or to go out with her friends because he knows very well that he does not own her, and that she is free to act as she wants.
- Consulting his beloved in vital matters, and taking her advice, in addition to involving her in making decisions related to his life and work.
- Providing support and assistance to her, and standing by her side to achieve her ambitions and dreams.
- He avoids doing things that may cause harm to his loved one, and if he commits some mistakes against his beloved, he is quick to correct these mistakes and apologize for them sincerely and honestly.
- He does not hesitate to extend a helping hand when needed and makes a great effort to achieve this, in addition to providing protection and safety for his beloved, and his constant fear and concern for her.
- Discussing his plans with her, as it is an integral part of his future, in addition to constantly talking about their life together, which means his desire to commit to her for a long period.
- Praise and compliment her constantly, noticing the simplest and subtlest details that are hidden and belonging to her, and then throwing praise and praise on her.
- Dealing with the girl he loves equally and fairly, so he does not see himself as being better than her in anything, and does not work to belittle her, or degrade her in any way.