Is love from Facebook real?
Love is one of the highest human feelings, we often expect neither the time nor the place of its occurrence. But, what about the love of Facebook, the love of the modern age? Can we fall in love through a computer screen and can we consider it true love?
We often fall in love unpredictably. But, of course, for two adults to fall in love, there must be at least some kind of real direct contact between them, eye contact or verbal contact for example. With the development of times and the advent of modern technologies, many young women and men become acquainted through the Internet, especially through social networking sites, the most famous of which is Facebook.
But, can we fall in love through a computer screen, even before we meet the other person directly?
Conflicting opinions about Facebook love
Here we may ask, can love happen through exchanged posts and messages without real communication taking place? Is this love real and successful or not?
As with all things, there are always positive and negative opinions and neutral opinions. Some believe that dating through Facebook is one of the means of communication already and that in the old day people fell in love without seeing their loved ones. While others see that the matter is not trustworthy because many people fake their facts online and show what is not in their real personalities, and this matter makes the person almost completely isolated himself from the surrounding community, replacing the real reality with the virtual world, and this inevitably leads to falling into Many wrong choices that are based only on written words. While another group believes that the two possibilities occur.
The credibility of the account holder
The continuity of the relationship that occurs through Facebook depends primarily on the sincerity of the account holders. The rope of lying, no matter how long it is, is ultimately destined to end and be revealed. A person may write incorrect things about himself, his life, and his qualities, and he may put some pictures that are different from what he is in reality. However, when the real connection takes place, all these lies will be exposed and the relationship will no longer last. We must wonder here, will the feelings of admiration and love disappear when the truth is revealed? Yes, most likely so.
Facebook love and the oriental man
Some assert that the oriental man by nature does not like to meet his life partner through Facebook or any other website. Because he will always wonder about himself and whether his girlfriend had previously communicated with people in the same way or not. Was he the first man she got to know in this way, or did he come at the bottom of her list?
While another view is that the thought has differed in the recent period and that the eastern man and the conservative Arab society have come to see that this method is only one of the forms and forms of acquaintance that may be successful.
How to protect yourself from the illusion of love on Facebook?
In order not to fall into the danger of Facebook and establish fake relationships, it is advised first not to rush in feelings and not to pass on highly private information, as it is preferable not to lie and falsify your original truth.
It is also recommended to customize what is published on Facebook if several people are not acquainted in your friend's list, while not building dreams in imagination from just one or more conversations, because the person may change his interest after a while.
It is also advised when adding a new person to the list of friends, reading his posts and seeing his responses to others, as well as searching for him through Google, there may be some information about him that may be useful in determining the shape of the relationship and being careful is always the best weapon to ward off any risks.
Summary
Love is one of the highest human feelings, we often expect neither the time nor the place of its occurrence. But, what about the love of Facebook, the love of the modern age? Can we fall in love through a computer screen and can we consider it true love?